Sex

Six things I learnt at Bringing sexy back!

(I don’t know why six but it just sounds nice)

1.  Sex is not all evil and it wasn’t designed by Satan or Hugh Hefner

 (Apparently according to a certain pastor I don’t wanna name, IT'S GODS PLAN)

Sex is meant to be great, meant to be enjoyed, meant to be passionate...i promise you I wasn’t getting carried away. On a serious note it was refreshing to learn that there’s a treasure to look forward to. There’s something explosive to look forward to if we are planning on getting married. I really really hope the last part didn’t come as a surprise!

2.     Soul ties are hectic!

(ok,  you might think that’s one of Barry Whites albums or Gladys knight but NO! )

Getting laid is more than just a physical act, our souls and spirits somehow attach and cleave to each other even after you’ve left the fresher’s bash and she pretends she doesn’t know you when she runs into you at stats!

3.     Abstaining is H.O.T.T

There’s something irresistible about someone that’s not everybody’s property and even better-someone that’s god’s property. All I have to say is guard that abstinence with all the power you have girls are after you like the last pair of Prada shoes at a 97% off sale...

4.     I’m not that bad-We all have stuff to deal with!

It doesn’t matter what you were/are into we are all in need of accountability and discipleship and loads and loads of grace. Whatever shape your stuff comes in you still have to deal. I’m tempted to get very silly about this point but I’ll just bounce my mind!

5.     Sex is so gangster it makes me co-create with God.

It’s the closest we get to play God and not be scared of being struck with lightning! Come on guys don’t make me have to explain this one, biology class...babies come from sex-ok  not really but you know what I mean.

6.    It aint over...

God actually wants to restore all that has gone wrong. It’s so cool, it’s not His fault-I went and filled my own mind up with pictures and ideas but he still wants to fix it. It might not happen in a day but He will restore that which I bring to the light. And he even wants to stop me from being the chameleon I’ve been (acting one way with Christian folk and living out R-Rated hip hop videos when I’m not with them), he wants to bring my public and my private life together.